A Matter of Perception
By Mohammed | September 2, 2008Imagine a balance beam, you know the kind that the gymnasts use in the Olympics. A balance beam is 5 meters or about 16.4 feet long and 10 cm or 4 inches wide.
So imagine that this beam is flat to the floor and you are asked to walk across it. Do you have any doubts that you can do it? Easy, right? You may lose your balance a bit but it is likely that you dont have any fear about walking across the beam.
So now put that beam up to the regulation height of 125 cm or about 4.5 feet high. Now think about walking across it.
Do you have more trepidation this time?
Next imagine the same beam, the same piece of wood balanced between two large building that are say&
30 stories high. What do you think about walking across it now?
My guess is that the higher the beam goes into the air, the more frightened you become of that little walk. Yet, it is the same beam, it is still just a short walk of 16.4 feet balanced on a 4 inch plank. It is essentially the same walk.
The difference is your perception.
Now consider this. Circus performers walk tight ropes and do wild things at great heights all the time. If they share the same fears we do then somehow they overcome them and they do it anyway.
The gymnasts not only walk across the beam but they do back handsprings, aerials and turns, leaps and dance poses. All you had to imagine was walking across. The gymnasts have overcome any doubts and fears that they have while the typical, normal adult is too scared to even try.
And the difference is perception. The circus performers and the gymnasts have learned to overcome their fears and do it anyway.
Now, lets shift to something that you can probably relate to.
Think about taking a trip, a trip of a lifetime, to someplace that you have always dreamed of going. You call the airline and the tickets are $25.00. Wow, pocket change, whoohoo, going on a trip! Easy, fun, effortless! How lucky you are!
Now imagine the same trip…..you have always dreamed of going……its still the trip of a lifetime but now the tickets are $2500.00.&.or $25,000.00.&. or (are you ready for this?) $250,000.00.
How lucky do you feel now to be taking that trip of a lifetime?
Its still the same trip. But your feelings about the trip have changed.
At what point does your heart stop and you say I cant do that!.
Its all a matter of perception.
There are people in the world who would not flinch at the price of $250,000.00 or even more for the trip of a lifetime and there are people in the world who would flinch at $250.00 and probably even at $25.00.
(reminder: this is not a conversation about value and worth but rather a conversation about perceptions).
So which one are you?
If you cant even imagine having something that you would want, if you cant even imagine having an abundance of money, love, time, energy, health, whatever it may be that is your wildest dream&.
If you cant imagine your wildest dream then you cant achieve it.
But if you can imagine your dream, you can have it.
And imagining it is all a matter of perception.

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September 12th, 2008 at 10:21 am
Hi Karen,
Appreciated your post. I recently wrote about my attitude shifts toward money in my blog – trading the word “money” with “underpants”. Just that simple exercise helped me see that money does not control me or my attitudes. You can read the post at http://www.xanga.com/VanAllenCoaching.
Dream Big!!
Lisa
September 12th, 2008 at 10:35 am
I’ve read the “Underpants” story from Rebecca Fine at http://www.scienceofgettingrich.net/article-15.html
Makes me laugh!!
http://www.livethepower.com/blog/209/targets-and-goals-and-infinite-underpants/
Thanks for stopping by…I wish you the Ultimate in Infinite Underpants and more!!!
September 13th, 2008 at 9:42 am
Thanks, Karen. That is a realistic way of seeing things. I have lots of money problems right now but i don’t want to stop enjoying life or quit being grateful for the things i do have. I keep hoping that a solution will come soon. I needed the encouragement.
September 13th, 2008 at 10:54 am
Johnny,
I’m happy that I was able to encourage you.
Keep being grateful and enjoying your life…and a solution will show up.
September 16th, 2008 at 3:51 pm
Hi Karen, Great article on perception! It really is all about how we perceive our lives. I am a firm believer in living in this moment of time because it is really all that there is. Everything happens for a reason and at this moment I trust. Trusting is the absence of fear. Trusting that every decision I make is the right decision, I live with the knowing that everything and everyone in my life is exactly where they are supposed to be at this moment. My perception of life is that every obstacle is a growing point and that everything will be ok as it always is. Thanks for your write. Karen
September 17th, 2008 at 4:11 am
Trust is the antidote to fear is an excellent concept. But trust in what? Trust in a belief system which grown to the level of conviction is what works.
September 23rd, 2008 at 12:00 am
Hi karen.Good life,wealth is a tune of mind and environmental.This perception changes with age,time and location.In town frustrations increase for the forces of markets and non basic needs increase.A weekend Kagera Tanzania is for going to church to thank god and its over.In town its different some will be going to casino to relax,some supermarkets and others with heavy spending luxiously.It is culture ,productivity,bargaining power,exposureand human interactions that creates more need for money and wealth. By the way money is the legal contract to transact.